The week leading up to my birthday was filled with anticipation. Ever since the first night I was here, when Pridoni and Ramazi asked if they could see my drivers licence, and found out that my birthday was on February 12, they had been telling me that I needed to have some of my friends over to celebrate.
A few weeks before my birthday I invited Matt, Cody, and David to come over. I would have invited more but I wasn’t exactly sure what was going to happen and I didn’t want to over burden Ramazi with too many guests. I knew that these three would be there, and I told Sopo that I would love it if her and her husband would join. I also found out on the Monday before my birthday that the husband of one of the teachers at the school had died, and that the funeral was to be on Saturday. Sopo then told me that Ramazi would prefer if I had my friends over another day, only to come back five minutes later to say “never mind, Saturday will work. Ramazi wants to take you and your friends out to a restaurant.” Hearing this I began to wonder if the teachers were all going to be at my party too, since this would be the only reason that it would matter that the funeral was the same day.
During the week there were multiple loud debates about “something.” I knew they were all talking about going somewhere…and I figured it was about getting rides to the funeral or to my birthday get together. I thought about asking but figured the suspense leading up to my bday would be better.
Saturday came and we all went to the funeral supra in the afternoon. Around five, all of my friends arrived in Siktarva. As we drove out to the road to meet them, we picked up one of the teachers along the way. This more or less confirmed that teachers would be at my birthday supra. We went to a restaurant between Terjola and Siktarva, and upon arriving I saw four or five more teachers standing outside. This confirmed that teachers would be there. I went in and the majority of the teachers were there.
The civics teacher, who speaks English, told me that this supra would be a gift for my birthday from all of the teachers at school. They surprised me again by giving me two horns for drinking out of to take with me back to America. We ate a ton of food, drank wine, sang, and danced. It was a very fun night.